How to Feel Powerful & Centred INSTANTLY – Part II

So this is Part II of Feeling Powerful & Centred! 

If you missed Part I?…you can check it out here.

Then come back to this post. 

But if you’ve been good and read the first one? Then carry on reading! 

What I’m about to share with you is something I picked up at a recent event I attended and I  loved it so much I want you to benefit from it  as well.  

This is great for moments when you may need to steady yourself, if ever you feel unsettled or just need that extra boost of confidence & strength. 

I believe the term for it is “anchoring” which is when you use positive emotions or words to “trigger” positive emotions. What I’m about to show you uses that principle…but also something physical that takes it to another level :  ) 

This works with or without a physical object – but let’s start with an example that uses one. 

Find a chair, or table…put your hands on it, grip it if you can. Close your eyes, and breathe rhythmically focusing on your breathing to start with.  

Then as you continue breathing…start to also focus your attention to the grip you have on the chair… Notice the centeredness you feel as you draw strength from the chair and your grip And feel how it all roots you solidly in place.  

I actually didn’t use a chair when I did this!

But it still works perfectly well without one. What you would do, is close your eyes, focus on your breathing, just like I described above..

Except this time Instead of a chair…you would focus on your legs and feet and how connected and rooted they are to the ground. 

Imagine yourself drawing strength, certainty and power by simply using the natural earth beneath you. 

Let me know what you think and if this works out for you. Would love to hear from you!  

Mark

Mark Villarosa - Artist, Musician and Digital Entrepreneur

How to Feel Powerful & Centred – INSTANTLY Part I

How are you today?

I hope you’re feeling good, centred and happy.

But the reality is…we won’t and can’t feel that way all the time. There will be days we may feel anxious, stressed out, fearful…even helpless.

If and when those days come let me share something with you that’s helped me IMMENSELY

They say when people feel depressed it’s because they’re “living” or re-living the  past, often in a regretful or painful way

And when people feel anxious, it’s usually because they’re projecting themselves into a future with trepidation & fear about things that haven’t happened yet

The key is to centre and anchor yourself in the “NOW”

Since the past is over and the future is yet to happen

The PRESENT is where your power is.

And that’s because anything and everything within your power is changeable and alterable

RIGHT NOW.

  • You can choose to move around.
  • You can choose to stay still.
  • You can choose to think good thoughts.
  • You can choose to think bad thoughts.
  • You can choose to say yes.
  • You can choose to say no.

Everything is a result of what you decide to do with your life…now.

Please remember no one (and that does mean NO ONE) has power over you and what you think on an ongoing basis, other than you.

One quick and sure-fire way I’ve used to centre and anchor myself in the present is to simply breathe…and focus on my breathing.

The key is to zone in and be vividly aware of your breathing, slow it down to a comfortable and natural rhythm…be aware of the sound of your breathing…

notice the feeling even the texture of the air that’s filling your lungs with life-giving oxygen

and when you breathe in…affirm good things and good thoughts and when you breathe out, imagine you are also exhaling anything and everything that doesn’t serve you or make you feel good.

Do this as long as you can…and as often as you need to.

Esp when you are experiencing difficult moments (large or small) in your life – remember you have an amazing and miraculous thing you can do and call upon (instantly) to help you 

Breathe : )

In my next post, I’ll share something else with you that’s helped me feel centred, strong and powerful instantly.

Click Here to Go to it now.

Mark

Mark Villarosa - Artist, Musician and Digital Entrepreneur

Do You Want to Feel Inspired?..

Inspiration Courage and Dreams

There’s a film I watched recently called “Door to Door” and I want to recommend it to you for a number of reasons.

Firstly the acting is really, really good. The film is also based on the true story of a man called Bill Porter.

Bill Porter was an American Door to Door salesman in the 1950s based in Portland Oregon. As a very young man, he experienced lots of rejections when applying to various sales companies who refused to hire him.

Eventually, he managed to persuade the manager of one company (Watkins Inc.) to give him a chance…but only by giving him the toughest sales territory that none of the company’s salespeople would touch!

I don’t want to spoil it for you by giving too much away – but the film follows Bill’s journey, his hardships, and the rejections he faced as he did his best to follow through on his decision to follow his chosen path. His dream was to make his first sale and be successful as a salesman.

What’s so exceptional about Bill you might ask?

Bill Porter had Cerebral Palsy.

He walked with a limp, had the use of only one arm and his speech was slurred to the point of being incomprehensible.

Not exactly the best start for a career in door-to-door sales.

His resolve was tested (to the limit) he battled everything rain, cold and probably most painful of all rejection and rudeness from people who were offensive and mean to him.

The movie has a beautiful flow and provides an emotional roller coaster ride following the story of a man who struggled to overcome odds most of us will never have to face, with dignity and courage that is admirable and worth emulating.

If this isn’t enough to encourage you to watch the film – the acting is extraordinary with William Macy as Bill Porter who also won an Emmy for his performance.

This film is such a precious rare gem that most people don’t know about – but such a treasure when you discover it. It’s only 1:30 min so not very long…perfect as a film over the weekend.

And if you’re in sales or have a sales-related job? this’ll definitely be perfect for you.

But even if you’re not in a sale job, this will still be very meaningful. In fact, it’s relevant to ANYBODY who’s job involves interacting with people in any way shape or form.

The film draws our attention to what we often forget in life and business – that although our jobs exist to help us make money, business isn’t just about money…it should be a harmony of being about people, relationships and trust…where we exchange things of value with each other: to help each other.

That’s what business is about – and if it isn’t? That’s what it should be about.

So anyway check it out. I hope you’re uplifted and inspired by it as much as I was.

Here’s a link to the film on YouTube (hopefully it’s still up there). If it is…you should be able to watch it for Free : )

  https://youtu.be/uYQdXvo469c 

Let me know what you think. 

Mark

Mark Villarosa - Artist, Musician and Digital Entrepreneur

My name is Mark. I’m an artist, musician and online entrepreneur.

I’m also on a mission to inspire and help people create the freedom to follow their passion by starting a business around what they love.